He either has it or he does not. Unfortunately, often times we come across those who do NOT have it. But - when you do finally come across the one that has IT, boy do sparks fly. It’s like the 4th of July meets Christmas and your best birthday ever!
“The Thing” is a term used to describe whatever he does that totally makes the Bunnie itch to come out. There have been occasions when the Bunnie has crept out - although contingency containment has had to take place. Its when he does that one thing that can words cannot adequately express but your body knows exactly how to respond. Only he knows how to do it and even if you tried to get someone else to do it; you could not. It’s the one thing you wish he would leave when he goes out the door – but has to take with him only because it’s attached to him.
If he is great at doing it, the mere thought of “The Thing” creates physical reactions that … well by now you have already called to see if he can do it again.
The ultimate Bunny Moment comes when the person you least expect to have “The Thing” – has it. For the most part I am a very reserved person and maintain composure (a bit prudish), but I got stumped by “The Thing”. It sucker punched me and laid me out cold. I swear it caught me so off guard I went back just to see if it was a lucky first try. I remember going back home having to admit to my BFF that I got hit with “The Thing”, after clowning her. I mean we had sized her guy up and accurately stated that he probably had “The Thing”. Me... it happened all too quickly for me to even size it up. Him having “The Thing” was not even a thought, let alone a second thought. As for the BFF, she has been rocked and caught off guard by “The Thing” too. She has learned not to underestimate the quite, mild mannered southern guy – He might have you walking funny and in a daze…
Once this happens you have a choice to make – will you tell him that he has “The Thing”???? Please know that not every guy can handle knowing that he has “The Thing”. 1 of 2 outcomes will take place, he will get cocky and then fail to ever replicate “The Thing” again … or he will take it as a compliment and work hard at maintaining “The Thing” and even finding a new Thing. The choice is yours but, be wise.
It is important to note that underestimation of “The Thing” can render one helpless and will compromise all Bunnie Contingency Containment strategies. You will have no other choice but to have a Bunnie Moment. The Alter Ego will come out – Sasha will make an appearance and your game will be knocked off. If he is really good – I mean an expert at “The Thing” however he rocks it, rolls it, walks it or moves it… he is a keeper.
Needless to say, “The Thing” is never to be underestimated no matter who the carrier of “The Thing” is… trust us we learned the hard way – No Pun ;-)
